Friday, September 12, 2025 (starting at 3pm New York Time)

Stop the Self-Sabotage Spiral:
Clear the Vows That Keep You From Receiving the Good Things You Want

Do you ever notice that just when something good starts to unfold—a relationship, an opportunity, a season of ease—a hidden part of you rushes in to delay it, destroy it, or cast doubt on it?

This is the spiral of self-sabotage. And it’s rarely conscious. At its root are hidden spiritual contracts—soul vows carried across lifetimes. You may have once promised to suffer instead of shine, to obey instead of create, or to stay bound instead of free. These vows can still be running in the background, quietly limiting how much happiness, love, and success you allow yourself to have.

In this deep group clearing, we’ll go beyond the surface habits of procrastination, self-doubt, and derailment. We’ll uncover and dissolve the soul-level programming that fuels them—vows such as:

• Vows of abdication: handing over your power, choices, or voice to others, leaving you hesitant to trust yourself.

• Vows of aloneness and isolation: binding yourself to solitude as if closeness or intimacy were unsafe.

• Vows of martyrdom and sacrifice: staying in struggle or pain as proof of loyalty, devotion, or “worthiness.”

• Vows of chastity and purity: repressing joy, pleasure, and desire, closing the door on life’s richness.

• Vows to glorify God through wounds: believing ease, health, or success make you less spiritual, and suffering makes you holy.

• Vows to hide your gifts: promising never to outshine, surpass, or disturb others—even if it means dimming your own brilliance.

• Vows of limitation and ceilings: invisible agreements that say, “This is as good as it gets—you can go no further.”

• Vows of rebellion: defining yourself by “never being like them” (parents, leaders, traditions)—only to remain unconsciously entangled with them.

• Vows of silence and obedience: muting your truth and creativity, holding yourself hostage to outdated authority.

In this session, you’ll:

• Clear destructive vows and programs that keep you circling in delay and derailment

• Reveal hidden soul-decisions to stay small, safe, or unseen

• Release the superstition that “if I’m too happy, something bad will happen”

• Dissolve energetic ceilings and walls that cap your joy, love, and fulfillment

• Restore the natural flow of blessings so you can trust yourself to receive and thrive

The Deeper Why

Self-sabotage is not laziness. It’s not weakness. It’s an ancient survival mechanism—one your soul once thought it needed, whether to stay pure, loyal, hidden, or “righteous” through pain. But those vows are expired.

This clearing severs them, untangles the threads of obedience, sacrifice, repression, and self-denial, and restores the energy of readiness.

You don’t need to suffer to prove anything. You don’t need to shrink to stay safe. You don’t need to fear the collapse that never comes.

You’ve already carried enough. This is the moment to lay it down.

The Result

When these vows are dissolved, life opens. Doors stay open. Joy lingers. Opportunities land and blossom. Instead of circling back into sabotage, you step forward into expansion. Self-trust grows. Receiving becomes natural.

This is your invitation to break the cycle. Clear the sabotage. Allow the blessings. Say yes to the good that is already seeking you.